I have been helping clients fix their love lives for more than 12 years.
I have helped singles who canít figure out why they are single transform their lives and attract a loving mate. I have helped people going through a breakup to either let go and move on, or to get the person back and create a healthy relationship. I have helped clients who are grieving the loss of a loved one through divorce or death to heal and move on. I have helped people recovering from affairs to rebuild their marriages. I have helped people save their relationships. I have helped people who donít know whatís wrong with them or their love life figure out whatís wrong and fix it, so that they can have love in their life. The list goes on and on. I really can help and have helped people in most any love life situation.
Who am I and how is it that I can claim to help people with their love life?
Let me tell you more about myself so that you can get to know how and why I can help your love life.
I have always wanted to help people. Upon graduation from college with a BA in Political Science I went into social service. However, I was stuck behind a desk and what I really wanted to do was to help people. A number of years and some interesting jobs later I ran across an article on the budding profession of life coaching and the online university, called CoachU, that was training life coaches.
I was in the first group of 700 people to go through the two-year program and graduate from CoachU. At the time CoachU was the only school training life coaches. I also became a member and got certified as one of the first Master Coaches by the International Coach Federation, a certification and regulation body of the life coaching profession.
Now you know about my professional training as a coach. Let me tell you why I am a Love Coach and, more importantly, why I am able to powerfully help you transform your love life.
The one thing that did not work in my life from the very beginning was relationships. From my very first boyfriend I knew I was in trouble. Love was confusing and scary at best and heart-wrenching at worst.
Two divorces, more breakups than I can count and various other love life predicaments and entanglements later, I decided I had had enough. I was going to get to the bottom of what made me so miserable, what made me pick bad partners and stay in bad relationships.
I embarked on a path of self-discovery. I read all the self-help books I could find. I worked with therapists and coaches. I worked on myself for 10 years.
The beginning of this journey was rough. I had a bout with an eating disorder. I was depressed and could not work for two years. I felt lost. But then life and love started to get better.
Eleven years ago I met my present husband, my love. I knew what I wanted in the relationship - communication, honesty, and connectedness - and that is the kind of relationship we set out to build. Both of us had a lot of learning to do, and we continue to learn how to create a satisfying and healthy relationship daily. As life throws us challenges we learn how to deal with them, together.
For years I had thought I was not going to have the kind of love or the kind of marriage I wanted. I thought there was something wrong with me, that for some reason it was not possible for me to find love. But here I am, deeply in love with my partner, and he with me, in a relationship almost exactly as I had imagined. It is by no means perfect, as neither of us is perfect. However, finding a loving, wonderful man is something I can check off of my lifeís to-do list as a completed task.
I did not get here by luck, or accident, or good karma. I got here because I embarked on a journey of figuring out what kept me from having the kind of love I wanted. I found and worked with all of the tools, tricks and shortcuts, all the kinds of support and work a person must have and do to learn to attract and keep true love.
The beauty of my journey for you is that wherever you are in your love life, I have likely been there and can lead you out of it and to your true love.
This journey took me years, but it does not have to take you that long. Because I took this journey, I can help you figure out exactly what is keeping you from having the love you want by doing a Love Life Diagnostic Session with you. I can then support you in taking the journey to healing your love life by working with you as your Love Coach.
Many people before you have taken this journey with me, and without exception, their love life --and their whole life -- was changed for the better. You can read some of their testimonials throughout this site to see what they have to say about working with me.
I invite you to believe that what you have always dreamed for your love life can be possible for you. I can help you get there. Explore this site and see for yourself all of the resources and tools I have made available here to help you get the love you want.